Ally guides
Allies. How to ask, how to be one, and what they see.
An ally is the human half of On Guard. These three guides cover both sides of the text: the man asking, and the man in his corner.
Your ally gets a check-in if an adult site is opened on your devices, with the app, the device and the time. No additional details.
3 guides · Checked September 17, 2026 against the shipping app
How the ally loop works
You
A known adult site opens on your screen.
The gate
On Guard steps in before you go further.
One text
Your ally gets the app, the device and the time. Never the site.
Your ally
A text back, a call, a catch-up. That is the whole job.
The loop is human on both ends. On Guard is the part in the middle that makes the moment visible without exposing it.
- 01
How to ask someone to be your ally
Pick one man you would answer the phone for at 11 pm. Tell him what he will get and what he will never see. Send the link. The ask takes three sentences, and most men say yes.
4 min read
- 02
How to be a good ally
Someone put you in his corner. When a known adult site opens on his device, your phone may get one short text with the app, the device and the time. Your job is to reach out, not to referee. This page is what to say, what not to say, and what you will never see.
4 min read
- 03
Ally FAQ
Straight answers about allies, from the shipped build only: how many, who, what they see, what they never see, how to remove one, and what happens when a device goes quiet or you uninstall.
3 min read
Every ally text links to a short page for the ally himself: Being an ally.
Questions answered
What is an ally, in one line?
A person you choose who gets one short text when a known adult site is opened on your device, with the app, the device and the time, so you do not face the moment alone. Never the site.
Why "ally" and not "accountability partner"?
Same idea, warmer word. An accountability partner sounds like a supervisor. An ally is a brother in your corner. The texts he gets are built to keep it that way: a check-in, never a report.
Does an ally need the app?
No. The texts reach his phone number. If he installs the app and signs in, he also sees whether your devices are standing guard, and the lapse alert lands there.